The Step Family Quiz

    Very True
(1)		 True
(2)		 Sometimes
True
(3)		 Not True
(4)
1. Overall, this is a happy family.
2. I know how a stepfamily works.
3. I am clear about my position and role in this family.
4. I know exactly what is expected of me in this family.
5. My child(ren’s) visitations typically go smoothly and without incident.
6. My partner and I are clear and consistent in our discipline and expectations of the children.
7. My ex-spouse and I have a consistent and mutual co-parenting approach for our child(ren).
8. As a parent whose child(ren) visit, I know that my relationship with them is strong and secure.
9. My stepchildren and I get along well.
10. My partner and I are "on the same page" with family rules, and the child(ren) are clear on these rules.
11. I really like my stepchildren.
12. I know how to balance the demands of my partner, my children, my stepchildren, our children, and our ex-spouses.
13. I feel included and respected when my partner’s children visit.
14. I balance my time , energy, and money effectively with this stepfamily.
15. My partner and I love each other, and our partnership is very strong.
16. I feel good about the way I am perceived by my stepchildren.
17. Knowing who comes first - my partner or the kids - is clear for us.
18. Re-coupling is just as I expected it would be.
19. I accept and like the way that my partner disciplines his children.
20. We agree about money and how it is spent with our family and ex-spouse.
21. My ex-spouse is cordial and respectful with both of us.
22. My partner’s ex is cordial and respectful with both of us.
23. I know what normal behaviors and attitudes are for stepchildren.
24. I know what normal behaviors and realistic expectations are for step couples.
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